Hey, y'all, this is Dr. Naima and I'm so thankful to welcome you back to the House of Tah. And today we're going straight in. Because some of you listening right now have been living so far from your own truth. You bly know what it feels like anymore. You don't really know what your truth feels like anymore in the moment. You have spent years chasing what looked good on paper. You've spent years doing what the good girl was supposed to do. You' spent years performing worth while your body was saying, no, the whole time. And nobody told you that every time you override your human design authority, a.k.a your body's intuition, you're betraying yourself. That is why you are exhausted. That is why you're resentful. And that is why you feel like you don't even know who you are anymore. So today, we're going to talk about it.

Somewhere along the line, you learn that being chosen mattered more than being whole. And from there, the performance began. You started fixing problems that were never yours to fix. You started playing a role of the good girl. You got the degrees. You may have even gotten married. You had the children. And somewhere under all of that. You lost yourself. And this is why in human design for my generators imagions, when you hear people say, "espond to the things that light you up, that makes you nervous. You're like, "What lightses me up? Because you don't know yourself. Projectors, you're too busy fixing people and, you know, trying to give people advice that you've lost connection with you. But I want to tell you, all those people who taught you to be chosen rather than being whole. Here's what they didn't tell you. The more you override your human design authority, regardless of what your type is, your body's intuition is your authority. Your body's intelligence is your authority. The more you override it, the more you disconnect from your truth. That's why you're exhausted. That's why you're resentful. And that's why you feel like you don't even know who you are anymore. So I'm gonna give each type something to reflect on. Yup. Even the ego projectors, even the mental projectors, I got you too. But before we get into that. Can I share something with you? For a long time, I didn't trust my own bodies knowing my own intuition, my own authority. I was living completely from my head. from what looked good on paper to other people. from what would make people say she did it right. Or, girl, I'm so proud of you. And I chased that version of success hard. I kept going back to school.. Associate degree, check. Bachelor's degree, check. Master's degree, check. PhD, check. More certification, certified nurse educator. Check. Certified medical Surgical Nurse. Check. More ways to prove I was worthy. But none of it was because my body said yes. It was because my splenic authority. my deep knowing have been drained and therefore drowned out. By years of performance. And while I was chasing those degrees, I wasn't listening to my body. I was holding so much emotion. so much stress, and so much bitterness. that it started breaking me down. There was this time. I developed gastritis. And you might say, oh, yeah, it's just because you were stressing. Yeah, because I was literally swallowing everything I couldn't say. And at the same time. I was in a marriage that was no good for me. And I knew it even before I married him. My body have been telling me for years. But I overwrote it. I stayed. Because that was what the good girl was supposed to do, right? It wasn't until I finally trusted my body, trusted my authority, that everything shifted. I left. I stopped chasing degrees. in certifications. I started healing, and it changed my fucking life for the better. That's why I say this. Authority override. is self betrayal. and your body keeps the fucking score every time you choose to override your bodies inner, knowing you're in your body's intelligence I had to accept that my body was intelligent as fuck. I had to give my mind that cap screaming. "What will they say if you leave? What will they say if you leave a nursing, you know, profession to become a human design expert? What will they say? That's what my mind was saying. I had to give my mind a rest and trust the intelligence of my body. And that's where a lot of us as women, we don't get to learn to trust our bodies. I want you to think about all the rules it takes to be a quote unquote good woman. a way to his stomach is to do way to his heart is do his stomach. What you won't do another woman will. Right? Or the mom shaming. You stay at home, mom? Oh, you're lazy. You work, you have children. Oh, my goodness. You're letting other people raise your children. There's nothing we do that's right to everybody else. And then we pick up all these messages and we let our minds. run the show and we ignore the intelligence of our body, which is our body's authority. So I'm going to talk about the emotional authority, psych authority, splenic authority, ego authority, self-proed authority, authority, and the mental authority, very high level because this is what I work with my clients on all the time, because this is the biggest thing. It literally is titled your authority because it is a thing that you need to really connect with. So how do you start noticing where you're overriding your authority? I'm going to talk about each of the authorities very high level again. And then I'll give you places to start knowing or recognizing when you're overriding your authority. So if you have emotional authority, 50% of you do, 50%, you need to slow down your decision making. Your body's intuition, unless it's an emergency, of course, is not intelligent in the now. You got a ride out that emotional wave. And there's several different types of waves. Everybody has emotional authority does not have the same waves. Okay. You have to ride out your emotional wave. Wait until you feel as calm as possible before making those major decisions. And the way that you know you're overriding your authority is very, very simple. This week, this is your charge for the week, because last week we did one thing as it related to you knowing, you know, when you're not in alignment with your type. But now it's about your authority. If you have emotional authority, pay attention to where you are making fast decisions just to keep the peace. Before your emotional wave has even had space to settle, Just be aware of that this week. Where are you given a fast yes? I remember having a client. And this is I gave her an exercise that was similar to this, but it was much deeper than this. And she came back and she said, Naima, Dr. Naima. She said, I've never said this out loud, but I've always known this. To keep the peace, I made a fast decision to marry my husband. He asks immediately my body was like, "Nope. But I said, yes. She said, "I' marry this man." Even though he had beat my ass repeedly. That's how deep this is this work is. It's not just about, what brings your joy? What's great? It's about saying the quiet things out loud. Owning that shit. and then making different choices. Next up, if you are a sakel authority. You are somebody who has a very intelligent body in the moment. Your gut tells you everything. Allow yes or are resounding now. all the time. Listen to it. Listen to it So how do you know you're overriding your authority? and only manifesting generators and generators can be sral. Emotional authority can be anyone projector, manifesting generator or project our generator. Fors Sakel, watch where you are saying yes when your gut is tight, heavy, or flat. When your sakeful is quiet, that's a clear no. Next up. It's gonna be your splenic authority. This is gonna be our projectors. And I'm a splenic authority, so I'm talking from an experience. Your body is very intelligent in the moment. However, comma. It's not loud at all. Your body is intelligent in the moment and it's confident as fuck that it's very low. It's quiet. It doesn't push you to do shit. at all. So you got to be in tune with your body. I want you to notice, when you ignore the first whisper, that itmediate knowing that says,This is not for me. I want you to notice those moments. I want you to notice how immediately your mind overrides what your spleen, your body's intelligence wants you to do. It happens to me all the time as a spen projector. I have to be very aware of it because it's not going to push you. It's not going to make you feel like you got to do it. But your mind will motherfucking mind. Okay. If you are an ego projector, you have an ego authority. Check where you are doing what you should instead of what you truly want to do. If your will is not in it, it's not aligned. There has to be something in it for you. Because your ego center's also your will center. It's like, well, what's in this for me? Doing things to should or an obligatory perspective doesn't work for you. Next up is going to be our self projected projectors. You have to hear your voice before you hear your mind. Your voice, the first thing you say when someone invites you to do something, that's the answer. But of course, our loud ass minder needs to be taken a back seat, tries to forcefully come over and change what you know it's right for you. So this week, self projected projectors, pay attention to where you are rushing decisions without giving yourself space to hear your first thought, first thing to not thought. First thing that you say. Because your truth comes through expression. Give it room. Or she has to give you give yourself room. Lastly, if you are a mental authority, notice where you are pushing yourself to decide without the right and right environment. Without the right people to talk it through with. You need spaciousness to find that clarity. Every time you override these truths, every time you move faster than your authority can speak. You teach yourself not to listen. And I've said this before, and I'm going to say it again. And your body keeps the score. You don't have to get this perfect. I'm gonna keep saying that 'cause I know I know you want to, because you're tired. You do not have to heal this overnight. But awareness is the beginning of change. It's the beginning of change. It saved my life. being aware, saved my life. It was the beginning of me having ease, the ease that I have now. So if you're ready to move differently to start living in alignment with your authority, this is the work we do inside of the House of Tah. So right now, my mini courses and 10 one sessions are open if you want to begin. This is what's open for the summer. And soon a deeper, premium space is coming. A space for projector, generator, and manifesting generator women who are ready to be held in this work long term. But don't worry. You'll hear more about that soon. But for now, if your body knows it's time to start. You can explore what's open now. The link is in the show notes, but as I say, and I'm going to say this every show, if I remember. Because I'm spllinics. And sometimes things go awry. I want you to move. If it's time, you will know when you're tired enough. And at this episode spoke to you. Stay close. There is more coming.. I'm Dr. Naima and I'm here to remind you. Your homecoming isn't out there. It's your rhythm. Your clarity, your turn.